Welcome to the April edition of the Six Minute Dates Newsletter.
Spring...romance is in the air! Want to know what MEN find romantic, read on and find out!
Did you take advantage of the ONE extra day that we get in 2008 and take the LEAP? April can be your motnh to get out there and take that risk. Risk is only way to have what you want in your love life! Letting someone into your life and your heart is scary but worth it!
Love Quote of the Month: You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you possess." Source Unknown
Can't wait to hear about the risks you've taken this month!
Looking forward to meeting you soon!
Sincerely,
What guys really find romantic:
Steve Santagati, author of The Manual, gives his version of what men really find romantic
What do you find romantic?
Girl romantic: Rose petals on the bed, champagne and a sensual massage for a super romantic evening. Nothing says "I love you," like this scene straight from a romantic movie.
Guy romantic: A guy's version of this would be his girl working the stripper pole in their room, they both get buzzed on champagne and listen to great music. Some version of this and you're on the right track for a guy's idea of a romantic evening.
Girl romantic: Cuddling in bed all day. Add even more romance by your waking us up with breakfast in bed (and not just cereal ... pancakes, eggs, toast ... something our guy took the time to make). Find out how to nix bedroom boredom!
Guy romantic: Watching TV in bed, our girl makes us breakfast and they have a quickie. If it's a cold, rainy day then they ca mix up the day with fun board games, quick chores around the house and some great "comfort food" meals... oh, and sex.
What are the top 5 romantic things men would like women to do for them? Steve fills us in!
1. Cook us a great meal.
2. Get out the massage oil and give a massage like you mean it.
3. Buy us a little gift that shows you are paying attention to our hobbies and interests. If he's an angler, you should buy him something for fishing. If it's hockey or videos and small appropriate gift is perfect for romance. It shows us that you understand us.
4. Write us a little note that tells us how much you appreciate us and what we've brought to your life.
5. Dress up in a naughty outfit and tease us.
Here's the final word on romance for men according to Steve: Romance is not second nature for most guys. If romance was recipe we would include: funny, sexy, spontaneous, and allowing us to still be "the man".
I am one of your biggest fans, and I tell anyone who may be sceptical about speed dating to give it a try, you just never know who you may meet. I was lucky enough to meet a wonderful man at one of your speed dating nights. He was in fact the first gentleman I talked to on the first night I went! If I had known then that it would turn out so well, I could have left after the first 6 minutes! (but actually I had fun the whole evening). We are engaged to be married in the fall and life together is full of laughter and fun.
Thanks again for setting the stage for us to meet.
HS
Speed-Dating Guests can be (+/-) 3 years of any of our age ranges.
WEDNESDAY, APRIL 23RD - Ages 30-40
THURSDAY, APRIL 24TH - Ages 25-35
WEDNESDAY, APRIL 30TH - Ages 35-45
WEDNESDAY, MAY 14TH - Ages 30-40
THURSDAY, MAY15TH - Ages 25-35
WEDNESDAY, MAY 28TH - Ages 40-50
THURSDAY, MAY 28TH - Ages 35-45
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SPRING FLING 2008 WEDNESDAY, April 16 - Singles Cocktail Party Ages - 25-40
(Please note there will not be any structured speed-dating at our large-scale events)
Join us at the Nectar Desserts for a fun night of delicious desserts, drink specials, fabulous music, fun mixers and the perfect opportunity to meet your match!
Tickets are $55.00 + tax, inc. delicious desserts
Dress is semi-formal
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This is a private party. Space is limited to 60 guests (30 women, 30 men) so book early to guarantee your spot! We always sell out!
Please arrive between 7-7:30pm for registration
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MARCH 2008
Aries Your love life should heat up this month, Aries. Venus, the planet of amour, enters your sign on April 5 to intensify your emotions and shift you into a faster-paced personal life. A tendency toward impulsiveness could lead to an awkward moment or two, especially with the New Moon in your sign on the 5th adding even more emotional fuel to the fire. Patience -- not exactly your strong suit -- will be tested as you want what you want now and not a minute later. This can challenge those closest to you who aren't able to move at lightning speed. A snag can arise as Venus crosses paths with dangerous Pluto on April 6 when you're bound to stir up buried feelings. Small differences of opinion could grow into a destructive emotional firestorm that threatens a relationship.
If you're single, feelings may go to extremes. You could become jealous or obsessed with someone or you might be so down on love that you're ready to quit the game forever. Fortunately, this will pass, but the point is for you to examine your desires more deeply so that you can clarify your needs and what you're willing to do to get them met. The Full Moon on April 20 falls in your 8th House of Intimacy, which ramps up the pressure to get closer. If you're feeling confined by your partner, this could cause a problem. But if you're seeking a deeper connection with someone, this can give you the impetus to try harder to make this happen.
Taurus You might feel a bit like an outsider for much of this month, Taurus. Venus, the planet of love, is lurking in your 12th House of Behind-the-Scenes Activities from April 5 until the 30th. The Sun, the astrological symbol of light and life, is also in this obscure area of your chart until April 19. It's likely that you will not get your usual dose of attention for the first two-thirds of March. Secret desires or a hidden love affair is possible. Even if you're not going to act on these impulses, you could have desires that you wouldn't like others to know about. If you're in a relationship, you might need more privacy instead of being so tightly bound to your partner.
The tide turns with the Sun's entry into your sign on the 19th, after which you'll be more comfortable taking chances and expressing yourself more directly. An increased level of physical activity may commence then, as well as an interest in making some minor changes to your appearance. The Full Moon on April 20 is especially important. The Sun in your comfy sign opposes the Moon in sensual Scorpio. This emotionally charged event occurs in your 7th House of Partnership, which is likely to push some personal buttons. If you're looking for a showdown with someone, this might be the moment. Whether pushing to get more or finally deciding to get away, this can be a critical time in a relationship. If you're single and don't want to be, others may help you meet someone new
Gemini Social activity may be high with the dynamic Aries Sun lighting up your 11th House of Groups until April 19. The likelihood of friends being major players in your personal life is further increased when Mercury, your chatty ruling planet, enters Aries on April 2. Fast thinking and talking can push you past barriers and enable you to make connections with new people. But rapidly as your mind is moving, the pace will pick up even more on April 5. That's when the Sun and Moon join in Aries to spark a desire for innovation and freshness that can lower your already limited tolerance for routine. If it isn't new and different, you don't want it. Venus, the planet of love and pleasure, enters Aries on the same day, increasing your hunger for innovation.
Seeking undiscovered forms of entertainment and, perhaps, a more exciting lover, is a real possibility. If you're with someone now, however, you may pick a fight just to push yourself away and either act on or fantasize about starting over with someone else. Stability begins to return when Mercury enters solid Taurus on the 17th, followed by the Sun on the 19th. This can be the start of a relatively quiet period when you want to stay away from crowds and will prefer the company of one calm individual. You might even spend more time alone. This could feel like a period of isolation, but you might need a break from people. You'll be happier with a bit more privacy for the new few weeks.
Cancer The Sun is shining high in your chart at the beginning of the month, which tends to put you in the public eye. Although this earns you attention, you might be so overloaded with responsibilities that little time is left for play. Still, if you do your job with efficiency and style, you may connect with someone who appreciates your abilities. In fact, being excited about a major project can make you more attractive now. This isn't a time when pursuing relationship directly is likely to be effective. The irony is that the less you seem to need others, the more they want to be with you. Just don't get bogged down in a situation where you're stuck being a caretaker for your partner.
You don't want to play mommy or daddy with your lover since it's a sure way to deaden a relationship over time. Yes, you're in a good position to take the lead with assertive Mars in your sign now, but changing roles is what keeps things lively. You can be impatient with someone who won't take a chance on love. In spite of your capacity to understand the vulnerabilities of others, you will not be turned on by weakness now. Powerful patterns during the New Moon on April 5 can produce conflict if the other person isn't doing his or her part to keep romance alive. Still, it may be better to battle and bring things out in the open than to brood in silent disappointment.
Leo Your taste for exotic dishes makes romance flourish in unfamiliar places this month. Planets are piling up in your 9th House of Foreign Cultures and Higher Education, heating you up in the company of those from different backgrounds or who are rich in intellectual power. In fact, a spirited debate could turn a difference of opinion into a dance of seduction. The line between fighting and flirting can be very thin; if you're attracted to someone, don't let an aggressive comment put you off -- it might just be an awkward joke. Enthusiasm can carry you too far on April 10, leading to a weekend when spending, loving, playing, eating or drinking too much is possible.
Take whatever feelings you have then and cut them in half for a more realistic assessment of your situation. The Sun, your ruling "planet," ambles into stable Taurus on the 19th, which may slow down your rush to romance. The burdens of work and family can get in the way of the fun you crave, yet it's going to take careful management of your time to make room for personal pleasure now. The Full Moon on April 20 stirs deep emotions as difficult memories from the past influence current feelings. Don't blame or accept blame from others; resentment is not the road to fulfillment. If you can't have a civil conversation, it's best to seek the counsel of a trusted individual who can broaden your perspective. If you're willing to be patient and responsible, almost any relationship can be repaired.
Virgo This is no time to beat around the bush when it comes to relationships. Take the initiative and talk straight to let others know exactly where you stand. It's much better to act like a leader than to try and respond to what you think people want. Yes, this can appear pushy to someone who expects you to adjust to his or her needs. Well, Virg, the courageous Sun, communicative Mercury and loving Venus are moving through your 8th House of Intimacy in "pull no punches" Aries. The New Moon in this sign on April 5 is a call to action. Are you ready to take a current relationship to the next level? Are you prepared to push into fresh social territory to meet someone new?
Well, even if you aren't, it's time to forge ahead. Harsh words could be a problem on April 10, but speaking up is definitely healthier than shutting down. If you're able to disagree without becoming disagreeable, you can regain the trust of someone you know or start building trust with a new person. On April 17, mental Mercury (your ruling planet) moves into sensual Taurus, where it will align favorably with your Sun for the rest of the month. This enables you to communicate in a down-to-earth way that makes others feel more comfortable with you. In fact, words can seem so sweet now that a good conversation works like a powerful aphrodisiac. Enjoying words and ideas works wonders to reduce tension and open the heart.
Libra Relationship issues are always important to you, but they are especially dynamic this month. April starts with the willful Sun in your 7th House of Partnerships. This represents the spirit of an exciting individual who can make your personal life more interesting. Yet it can also tell the tale of a selfish person who is unwilling to respond generously to your needs. Well, Leeb, it's time for you to take charge in matters of the heart. If you have a main squeeze, be a leader now since you need new stimulation to liven things up. If you're single, this is a great time to boldly step forward and make the first move.
It's more important to act directly than to play it safe this month. Venus, your ruling planet and the astrological symbol of love, enters fiery Aries and your 7th house on April 5 to spice up your personal life. Venus crosses paths with insatiable Pluto on the 6th, which can bring disappointment to the surface. Still, if you're not happy with what you've got, you'll have a clearer sense of what you need to make you happy. The fast pace of interactions with others changes on April 19 when the Sun enters steady Taurus and your 8th House of Intimacy. You're ready to go deeper, seeking more from your current partner or stubbornly not settling for less with a potential new one. This isn't about playing hard to get, but it is important that you're treated like gold if you're going to open yourself up to take this connection to the next level.
Scorpio Passionate Mars, your traditional ruling planet, is sweetly massaging your sign from sensitive Cancer. This gives you some drive, but in a low-key way because safety is as important to you as stimulation. There are a number of distractions, though, that can make it a bit more difficult to find romantic bliss in the first half of the month. First, the Sun is shooting through your 6th House of Work and Service, which can keep occupied with the challenging details of daily life. The social tides turn in your direction on April19 when the Sun enters Taurus and your 7th House of Partnership. Instead of struggling so hard, this is a time when pleasure can come to you more easily. Finding more comfort within a current relationship or meeting an interesting person who isn't particularly demanding suits you well now.
Life doesn't have to be so complicated. Being straightforward, can feel risky, but it's the safest way to be. On April 20 the Moon is full in your sign, which has a tendency to intensify your emotions. If you've been sitting on the fence, this is a time when you'll be willing to jump off it. The opportunity for intimacy grows when you're able to face your fears, express your desires and really listen to what the other person has to say. If you are with someone who is good for you, put in the time to talk long and hard and you can be rewarded with renewed trust, yet if either of you is hiding their true feelings, the relationship could be in trouble.
Sagittarius You are ready to rock when it comes to love, Sagittarius. The Sun, Mercury and Venus are all in your 5th House of Romance for much of this month. The power of the Sun helps you shine, gain plenty of attention and show how creative, expressive and generous you can be. Venus, the planet of amour, enters this lively part of your chart on April 5 to open your heart and stir you with excitement. A New Moon in your 5th house on the same day ignites your spirit of adventure and increases your desire for fun. You're not looking for a safe and steady relationship now; you need drama and excitement. You may act impulsively just to shake up a complacent partner.
If you're single, though, this Sun-Moon conjunction encourages your provocative side as you're looking to play whenever and wherever you can. A full-speed, no-holds-barred approach to romance can be thrilling for you but scare a more insecure individual. Still, it's hard to slow down and consider the needs of others when you're spreading your emotional wings and getting ready to fly. The tone shifts on April 19 when the Sun enters your 6th House of Work. The pace is likely to slow, so be prepared to calm down a bit. The Full Moon in emotionally intense Scorpio on April 20 falls in your 12th House of Secrets. Hidden desires may come out in the open or embarrassing issues can emerge. Handle any delicate revelations with care if you want to avoid an explosion.
Capricorn Take care of matters on the home front in the first half of the month so that you have plenty of time to play in the second half. Planets are piling up in your 4th House of Domestic Matters, which can create a sense of urgency as you deal with challenges within your family or with your physical environment. The New Moon in excitable Aries on April 5 can trigger a crisis that undermines your sense of order and self-control. However, Cap, it can be good to lose your cool once in a while if it leads to a much-needed shake up in your routine or attitude. The security that you usually seek is not easy to come by, but this is no reason for concern. The message is to live in the moment rather than worrying too much about the future.
The emotional tide turns on April 19 when the Sun enters steady and sensual Taurus in your 5th House of Self-expression. Now you're ready to rediscover your playful side and open your heart to the delights of romance. You'll get attention more easily, but the key to making a major impact is to be as relaxed and natural-looking as you can. A carefully coiffed casual look and a big warm smile are bound to turn heads in your direction. Enjoying physical pleasure through touch and taste allows you to have a good time without the complications of over-thinking, which could take some fun out of this delicious ride.
Aquarius Planets are dancing through your 3rd House of Communication at the beginning of the month, which should get you talking faster and more freely to facilitate quick connections with new people. This part of your chart is also associated with short trips, so that an outing around town can lead to a sweet interaction with a total stranger. There's no reason to take any of this too seriously, though, since circumstances are better suited for short-term fun than long-term commitment. If you're in a relationship already, try to shake it up a bit with fresh ideas and activities to keep things from growing stale. Boredom can lead to snarky speech that undermines trust and tenderness.
Settling in looks more attractive when the Sun enters steady Taurus on April 19. But as much as you might seek the comfort of familiar faces and places, you can't stop yourself from hankering for more. A high-energy hookup between active Mars and your inventive ruling planet Uranus on April 22 puts you in an adventurous mood. Attraction to a dangerous person probably won't feel risky, so balance your taste for the unusual with a little bit of caution. A tendency to go too far too fast is possible over the next few days. Big promises may fall short of your expectations. You may spend too much, overestimate someone or lose your sense of judgment. Stretching your personal limits with someone is understandable, but have a backup plan in case you put yourself in an awkward situation.
Pisces Invest some time, money and energy in yourself with the Sun warming your 2nd House of Self-Worth through April 19. You're not the selfish type, Pisces, but putting more attention on your own needs increases your confidence and makes you more attractive to others. Friday and Saturday, the 11th and 12th, can stir strong feelings as the Moon moves through your 5th House of Romance. You don't have to put on a big show to be noticed, but a willingness to express your desires more openly is helpful. If you're in a relationship, this is a good time to do something special with your partner. Celebrating the love you have for one another is a way to maintain a partnership at a level that will meet your high romantic expectations.
The Sun's shift into earthy Taurus on the 19th puts you on more solid emotional footing, making it easier to communicate clearly. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 20th, though, is bound to bring deep issues out into the open. Secrets may be revealed that can rock your relationship world. But if you can be truthful without being hurtful, this can open the way to a richer connection and a greater degree of trust. Pisces without partners may feel a strong hunger for connection that provokes bold behavior. The power of desire gives you the courage to say exactly what's on your mind. Just use a bit of your well-known sensitivity to pick the right time and place to do it.
Love Horoscopes are courtesy of Jeff Jawer
Provided by Tarot.com
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Welcome to the April edition of the Six Minute Dates Newsletter.
Hi Cara and Six Minute Dates,
MARCH 2008
