Is she interested in getting to know me better? How do I know if she's interested in getting to know me better?
Gauging Interest
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Dear GI
You need to create some tests and throw some feelers out there. If you are always in a group setting, ask her to go for coffee sometime. You can mention something she's specifically interested in and say you'd like to hear more about it. She may not be clear on your intentions at this point. If she says no or suggests another group activity, you're out of luck, she's not interested. On your coffee date, look for things like lingering eye contact, open body language, and overall a general interest in seeing you again. Gauge her reaction when you suggest to see her alone again at another time in the future. Don't assume because she said yes to one coffee that she is clear on your intentions. If she says yes to a 2nd coffee date or activity, she is definitely clear on your intentions.
