I'm 26 and recently started dating a 21 year old woman. We went out a total of 4 times over a few weeks, and I know we were both really attracted to each other. She was over at my place on the 4th date, and I kind of blurted out that she should stay the night. I don't necessarily move that fast, but I thought it was what she wanted. Anyway, it apparently turned her off because she has basically ignored several emails, as well as two phone messages I left her. I feel like I came on way too strong and now I feel terrible. Do you think it would border on stalking or harrassment if I emailed her a poem I wrote for her? It's been over a week since I've talked with or received an email from her, and I'd hate to creep her out. Thanks.
Jason
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Dear Jason,
Let things settle for a bit. You have now sent "several emails" and left "two phone messages". It is clear to her that you are sorry and that you wish to make further contact. DO NOT send the poem, it WILL creep her out. If she has not responded, count yourself lucky because she is not the one for you. I can understand that you may still have feelings for her but really, do you want to have a long term relationship with someone who is not even willing to discuss a simple misunderstanding? You made a suggestion when she was at your place based on signals you thought you were getting - there is no harm done.
