How do I successfully speeddate? I have been at a few of your speed dating events now and have not received one match. I have no clue why. I have picked people I think I am attracted to but they obviously are not attracted to me. I am doing some things wrong obviously. I need some help. I don't know what to do. It is frustrating to say the least.
Frustrated
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Dear Frustrated,
I often see people experiencing great results after making a few tiny changes to their approach at our speed-dating events. There are many factors involved but generally successful speed-dating is a result of being relaxed yet confident. Rather than getting wrapped up in trying to impress people, make the evening about enjoying each and every one of your conversations. Some questions you may want to ask yourself are: Am I appearing overly eager? Am I getting far too specific on any one topic? Is my style of humor too subtle? These are some places to start since I do not know what you are doing right or wrong at the events. If you would like to get more specific, I suggest booking a coaching session with me. www.yourdatecoach.com
