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How long should I wait to call her?
Hi Christine

I've just started seeing a single mom (25). I'm 27 and really like her. We've been on 2 dates. How long do I leave it to call for a third date? I don't want to appear clingy. I really like this girl but don't want to play it too cool so she thinks I'm not interested.

AP

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Dear AP,

If you are really interested in her, don't leave it longer than 48hours. The 3-day rule is really out of date. For example, if you went out on a Friday night, give her a call on the Sunday night. If you call her 48 hours after the 2nd date to set up a 3rd date for 3 days later, that will not appear clingy at all. That is a full 5 days between dates which is lots of time to keep the butterflies going. Got the math? :)

Sincerely,
Christine

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